Exercising self-control is such a powerful way to carry yourself. If you are constantly mindful of your thoughts, behaviors, actions, habits, and speech and actually have full control over them, there’s nothing you can’t do. Your self-control should always be a reflection of Jesus and His teachings. 
 
Read Proverbs 16:32
When lighting this candle, think about where you are lacking self-control (if at all) and what you can do to address it.